Serving the Special Needs Child
Ruth Rautio, Special Ed Teacher, Specializes in EBD/LD.
But Jesus called them unto him, and said, Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God. Luke 18:16. Currently there are more than 7 million children with special needs throughout our nation. Two specific disabilities are Autism and Emotional Behavioral Disorder (EBD). Find out from the autistic parent exactly what the child’s favorite treat is at home and always have it for after church fellowship time that way the parent can enjoy the time without the child being upset due to unfamiliarity. Ask the parent what their favorite toys, games, or items are at home and try to get those exact items for a church bag so the child knows there is normalcy at church and the parent doesn’t have to remember to bring the favorites. Have the same two people that the autistic and EBD child knows and is comfortable with in the nursery so that the parents can successfully leave the child and enjoy the service. The key for Autistic children is to have as much the same as home for that carryover and normalcy which provides for an easy transition from home to church and minimizes the difficulty that can occur from change. Most of these tips are very good for the EBD children as well however, make certain that the child is only re-directed by the caregiver when an incident occurs because the caregiver knows best how the child will respond. For the EBD and Autistic child know that the parent often has a constant battle at home and everywhere they go. They have come to church for a reprieve and a place of security. Most of all remember to surrender these children along with all other children to the Lord for such is the kingdom of Heaven.
