March 15, 2012

FOCUS

So, here I am, a pastor’s wife?!



Whether you have been one of us for 2 weeks, 6 months, 2 years, or 65 years, we all have need of TRUTH spoken to us which render us: hope, grace, encouragement, and life transformational insights. We pray that you will receive just that (and more) through our various 2012 writers. The Heartline entries include timely insights into several scripture passages and life-applicable topics.

God bless you as you join us in gleaning!

WORDS TO INSPIRE


GOD’S WORD- Eternal Truth



“For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth. To show Himself strong on behalf of those whose heart is blameless before Him.” 2 Chronicles 16: 9

I love this Scripture. It describes the reasons I feel confident in crying out to God.

I discovered this brilliant nugget of truth while searching the Scriptures in my girlhood. It grabbed my attention! With excitement I imagined the Living God from His throne in Heaven looking up & down, back & forth throughout the earth, searching for His child whose heart is blameless with sincere faith in Him. I pictured this one and that one, suffering, yearning, hoping against hope for God’s provision of mercy, healing and deliverance. With confidence in His Fatherly care, I lifted those names up to HIM.

And of course, I cried out with my own needs. I lifted my eyes to Him in full faith & dependence, and prayed for His mercy to fall upon me.

I believe that this Scripture has a threefold essence: (1) It reveals God’s heart of MERCY. (2) It promises HIS POWER. (3) It compels us to PRAY.

An earthly Father scans the playground to be sure his child is safe; a mother scans the lake as her child bobs up and down in the water; each one stands poised to jump and run to help if a sudden need arises! Each is alert to his child’s cry. But our situation is all the better. We are not at play. We are trudging through the slough of this dangerous world, often carrying heavy burdens. We have to climb mountains of difficulty as we scramble to hold tight to those entrusted to our care. We’re under attack all the way, dodging arrows and darts, and sometimes stumbling with pain as we succumb to them. Sometimes we fall. Often, we look up to His seeing eye and cry for help. We readily recognize that we are totally helpless without His deliverance. “O Lord, in the acceptable time: in the multitude of thy mercy hear me.” (Psalm 69:13)

God’s power is at work on our behalf. He is ABLE to save! He is ABLE to deliver us! We can claim the “exceeding greatness of His power toward us who believe.” (Ephesians 1: 19,20) “His mighty power, which He wrought in Christ Jesus when He raised Him from the dead and set Him at His own right hand in the heavenly places “ is ours!

I love 2 Chronicles 16:9. I do cry out to God for myself, but most frequently this scripture prompts me to lift others to Him as I place their names in this promise. “Father, I know that you are searching for your child who needs you desperately. Please show yourself STRONG on behalf of ____________ today. He needs healing, Lord. She needs wisdom, Lord. This family needs untangling. That situation needs deliverance. This needs your direct intervention. Please deliver him from danger. Please hold her in Your everlasting arms.”

At any minute God may break in. “God meets life,” writes Oswald Chambers in My Utmost for His Highest. “Keep your life so constant in its contact with God that His surprising power may break out on the right hand and on the left.”

That’s the essence of my practical “living out” of this Scripture. It drives me to intercessory prayer. I pray with confidence! It is the Living God who makes this promise. I bow humbly before Him and wait for Him to show His mercy and power in the best ways He shall choose.

NEEDS OF THE REAL WORLD


SELF-CONFIDENCE VS GOD-CONFIDENCE


If I have so much confidence in myself that I leave God out on most parts of my life I will immediately experience as a child of God struggles within. God continually reminds me with a still small voice that I am resting in my own abilities or self-confidence and I am not asking or leaving situations over to the Lord. The thing we have to remember is that when He created us He did not create robots. He created us with a will. He loves us so much and wants us to follow His will but we have to turn our will over to His will. So in every situation in my life I must allow God to have a part in every one. He knows already the outcome of everything but He wants me to verbally by mouth or thought give that over to Him.

It is when I continue day by day doing everything on my own and not giving the day and the situations over to him that I feel frustrated, anxious, angry, worried, and stressful. I then have to learn that I need to leave every situation of my day or the situations that I know are coming my way tomorrow over to Him. I know that I have heard that saying many times by pastors and teachers but to listen to that saying and to do it actually myself is two different things. I need to give my will over to His will.

Sometimes, and probably more than I would like to admit lately, I get going doing my own will and don’t ask God what He thinks nor do I ask Him to handle certain situations. He allows me to go ahead and do my own will. Sometimes I listen to the Holy Spirit speaking to me to give that over to the Lord, quicker than others and sometimes I don’t. When I don’t then I experience my heart so heavy and anxiousness comes so strongly to my body that I wonder what is going on. Then I remember that I am handling the situation myself and I have not given it over to the Lord or asked Him to tell me what to do and my worry has overtaken me.

When I consistently give the Lord every situation of the day and the next day over to Him the peace that I feel inside me is so comforting. It is so peaceful. I sometimes say why do I forget this peacefulness so quickly and get into the stressful anxious worrisome body and heart. Why do I not listen quicker and react towards the Heavenly Father to experience His love and care for me and show His glory through the situation. I have experienced many times lately when I have not known what to do that I have just simply stated a small statement,” I don’t know what to do Lord, you are going to have to tell me where to go or what to do.” Then I just wait and each time God does give me the answer. It is in my mind a total miracle and closeness to the Lord that I cannot express in words.


I am learning to allow myself to have God –Confidence instead of Self-Confidence. It is a continual process for me and one that I am learning every day. I claim the Bible verses Proverbs 3:5, 6. Trust in the Lord will all of thine heart and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge Him and He shall direct thy paths.

CHECK IT OUT


“If You Want To Walk on Water, You’ve Got To Get Out Of The Boat”
By John Ortbergs



In whom or in what do you place your trust? This challenging question is at the heart of John Ortbergs’ book, “If You Want To Walk on Water, You’ve Got To Get Out Of The Boat.”

Ortberg, Senior Pastor at Menlo Park Presbyterian in California, uses the Biblical account of Peter walking to Jesus across the water as an illustration of every Christian’s struggle between faith and fear. He describes Peter’s experience succinctly: “Hope got Peter out of the boat, Trust held him up, Fear sank him.” I don’t know about you, but there are many times when I feel content to be what Ortberg calls a “boat potato,” relying on familiar routines, relationships and expectations. The truth is I’m afraid of failure. It seems safer to stick with the folks I know and the abilities I’m comfortable with using than to strike out into the unknown. Jesus wouldn’t expect me to do that, would He? The answer is yes, sometimes He would, because, “God’s general method for growing a deep, adventurous faith, is by asking us to get out of the boat.”

Ortberg combines Biblical teaching, personal examples and insights from other Christian authors in an engaging style. He wants to help his readers learn to be “water-walkers” like Peter. This means discerning God’s call, identifying and transcending our fears, accepting failure and becoming willing to take risks because we trust the One who called us. He illustrates “water-walking” with examples of Christians who have followed Jesus into the storm. Harriet Mears was an accomplished “water-walker.” She taught college age young people for years at Hollywood Presbyterian church and was a formative influence on many, including Billy Graham. Becoming frustrated with the lack of first rate educational materials she started a small publishing company in a garage. It grew into Gospel Light Publishers. Because she could not find a good single volume introduction to the Bible she wrote her own and it continues to be sold today. She also helped to found Forest Home, a well known spiritual conference center. Each time she saw a need she trusted Jesus to help her meet it. Yet at the end of her life, this amazing Christian woman, when asked what she would have done differently replied “I would have trusted Christ more.”


What would happen if we each trusted Christ more? Read this book alone or with a group of friends and you may find out. There are discussion questions at the end of each chapter, making it a good choice for a study group or book club.

HELPFUL HINTS FOR HOME



Sunday Family Breakfast



Week day mornings were always hectic in our house. Getting kids up and ready for the school bus, a quick bowl of cereal, family devotions before heading out the door was a typical weekday.


Sundays we made time for a family breakfast. I would make something special for breakfast like coffee cake, pancakes or cinnamon rolls and we would all sit down together for breakfast before heading to church.


You might say, that would make a busy morning more hectic. For me, I found it made my Sunday morning run more smoothly. I had to plan ahead. I had to be organized. Usually by Saturday morning I had figured out what I would fix for Sunday breakfast. If we were going to have cinnamon rolls I would make them on Saturday. Other things, like coffee cake, I would get things prepped ahead of time so it only took a few minutes in the morning to mix up and get in the oven.
The kids liked having this special breakfast on Sundays. They would make suggestions on what I should fix.


The time spent around the table on Sunday mornings was a way for the kids to have time with their dad before he got busy with the church business of the day.
Even with my kids grown and mostly out of the house, when they do come home, one of the first questions they ask is “What are we having for breakfast on Sunday?”

IDEAS THAT WORK

HYPERTENSION




Have you or someone you love been told this is a problem? High blood pressure is a silent disease that can cause heart attacks or strokes – high on the list of deadly diseases.

Normal: 120 systolic/80 diastolic
Borderline: 120-160/90-94
Mild: 140-160/90-104
Moderate: 140-180/105-114
Severe: 160+/115+

Doctors are most concerned with the diastolic pressure. Blood pressure typically goes up because of stress or physical activity. Most concerns can be brought under control with a change in diet and lifestyle (reducing stress and increasing exercise). Drugs are not always the answer. Many complications are associated with drugs.

Lifestyle Causes: Obesity, Sedentary Lifestyle, Stress, Smoking.

Dietary Factors: Coffee Consumption, Alcohol Intake, High Sodium-to-Potassium Ratio, Low-Fiber, High-Sugar Diet, Diet Low in Calcium, Magnesium, and Vitamin C, High Saturated Fat Intake, Low Intake of Essential Fatty Acids.

Prevention:

* Don’t smoke, reduce excess weight, minimize or eliminate alcohol and caffeine.

* Eat whole, unprocessed, preferably organic foods, especially plant foods (fruits, vegetables especially celery, broccoli and leafy greens, BEANS (legumes), seeds and nuts), and cold-water fish and low in animal products.

* Exercise Regularly – minimum 30 minutes 3 times a week. Gradually increase aerobic exercise to 5 -6 times a week. Walking is a good beginning.


* Learn how to control anger or express it appropriately.

1. Be kind to yourself. Make time to give and receive love in your life.
2. Be an active listener without interrupting.
3. Be courteous when you are interrupted.
4. Avoid aggressive/passive behavior. Be assertive. Express your thoughts in a kind way.
5. Avoid excess stress by avoiding excessive work hours, poor nutrition, and inadequate rest.
6. Avoid stimulants like caffeine and nicotine that promote fight or flight response.
7. Build long-term health by performing stress-reduction and deep breathing exercises.
8. Be patient and tolerant of others and yourself.




Psalm 37:5

Information from “Natural Medicine Instructions for Patients”, 2002 Elsevier Science Ltd.

HERE'S WHAT'S COOKING



Chop Chop Salad



Ingredients
1 romaine lettuce heart
4 to 6 slices thick-cut bacon, cooked until crisp, cooled, and chopped
1/2 pint grape tomatoes, halved
2 carrots, peeled and thinly sliced
1 yellow bell pepper, chopped
1 English cucumber, halved lengthwise and thinly sliced
1/2 cup chopped walnuts
Coarse salt and freshly ground pepper to taste
Salad Dressing (we suggest Ranch or Blue Cheese--see above)

Instructions
1. Chop the lettuce heart into 1- to 2-inch pieces. Combine it with the bacon, other vegetables, and nuts in a large bowl and toss the mixture well.



2. Keep the salad chilled until serving time. Then toss it again with enough dressing to lightly coat the vegetables, and season it with salt and pepper.


Serves 6.




Beef Taquitos



Ingredients
1 tablespoon vegetable oil, plus more for brushing on the taquitos
1 medium onion, finely chopped
1 clove garlic, minced
3/4 pound lean ground beef
1 cup salsa, plus more for dipping
2 teaspoons chili powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1/4 teaspoon pepper
10 (6-inch) flour tortillas
1/2 cup shredded Cheddar or Monterey Jack
Sour cream

Instructions
1. Heat the oven to 400ยบ. Heat the oil in a large skillet over medium heat. Add the onion and garlic and cook them for 3 minutes, stirring often. Add the beef and use a wooden spoon or a spatula to break it up while it cooks, until it is no longer red, about 3 minutes. Stir in 1/2 cup of the salsa, the chili powder, and the salt and pepper. Cook the mixture over low heat, stirring occasionally, for 10 minutes.



2. Place the tortillas on a plate and cover them with damp paper towels. Microwave them until warm and pliable, about 45 seconds. Top each tortilla with 1/4 cup of the beef mixture, spreading it to an inch from the edges. Sprinkle cheese evenly over the beef.



3. Roll up the tortillas and place them on a foil-lined baking sheet with the seam sides down. Brush the taquitos lightly with vegetable oil, then bake them until the filling is heated through and the tortillas are lightly browned, about 8 to 12 minutes. Serve them hot with sour cream and/or salsa. Serves 4 to 6.

Recipes provided by: Disneyfamilyfun.com



TOGETHER THROUGH PRAYER

Gracious Heavenly Father, I Praise You for who You are! You are Almighty. You are Merciful! You are full of Compassion. Forgive me for putting the focus on myself, for my self-reliance. I thank you for being patient with me. For your grace extended to me as I seek you, and your allowing me, in my brokenness, to find my strength in You alone! I praise you that YOUR POWER is made perfect in my weakness. I will boast all the more gladly about my weakness, so that your power may rest upon me. For when I am weak , then I am strong. Thank you, Jesus! Amen

January 23, 2012

FOCUS

So, here I am, a pastor’s wife?!


Whether you have been one of us for 2 weeks, 6 months, 2 years, or 65 years, we all have need of TRUTH spoken to us which render us: hope, grace, encouragement, and life transformational insights. We pray that you will receive just that (and more) through our various 2012 writers. The Heartline entries include timely insights into several scripture passages and life-applicable topics.


God bless you as you join us in gleaning!

WORDS TO INSPIRE


GOD’S WORD- Eternal Truth


“For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the LORD. “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.’ Isaiah 55:8-9

A little girl who comes into the house with mud on her shoes cannot hide her tracks. The mud must be removed. My sin leaves tracks, sometimes in my own spirit, that usually affect those around me. Several Sunday afternoons ago I was well on my way to a pity party. None of our children had called even though we had not seen them for some time. Instead of reaching out to help someone else who might also be lonesome, I felt very sorry for myself. Turning to study for an upcoming Bible lesson sent me to a verse I’d never noticed before. ”So if a person lives many years, let him rejoice in them all, but let him remember that the days of darkness will be many.” I was amazed at the timing and the message. Yes, I have many years. Come to think of it, I do rejoice! “And expect some dark days”--- lonesome days can feel like dark days. I can expect those, wise King Solomon said. A prayer for forgiveness for my attitude changed my perspective. God’s Word, His words, changed dark to light. And then, as if to accentuate the message, I came upon this word in Psalm 118, “Glad songs of salvation are in the tents of the righteous.” My house had not been joyous but I want it to be.

And again, last week, a deep disappointment sent me searching. Amy Carmichael helped this time. I read and re-read the Words of God she had chosen and the words of her own writing. In time my thoughts turned from hurt to a prayer for forgiveness. God’s Word changed dark to light. Today news came that a dear friend, someone much younger than I, one who has touched me deeply, is dying from cancer. I am sad to my core. But I am not “losing” a friend because I know her destination. God’s Word, through His promises, changes the darkness of sad news to hope.

“’For My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways My ways,’ declares the LORD. ‘For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.’” Sometimes I want to stay in my dark closet. I think I have a right to be hurt; sometimes I find it difficult to believe God would forgive me again. Yes, even in my gray years such challenges continue to come. A dark closet is lonely. I need Light! His Light is the cure for my dark times. My distorted thought, my sins, are known to Him. “His ways are immeasurably higher than my ways” reminds me of my need and God’s resolution. I John 1:9 is another revelation of God’s way, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Our God is awesome! His conviction is a gift. His forgiveness is a gift. He, the One who is exalted above all others, sends Word that He will abundantly pardon—that means again and again. We can be cleaned and “go out in joy and be led forth in peace.” (Isaiah 55:12)


NEEDS OF THE REAL WORLD

HOW CAN GOD USE SOMEONE LIKE ME?!
( Mistakes and all)


First of all when I think of all of the mistakes that I have made as a Christian woman it overwhelms me so badly that I feel like I am in a locked cage. That is why I cannot concentrate on my mistakes

I have to remember that He is working with my imperfections to do what His will is. It has taken me awhile to understand this. With my nature I am a planner, organizer and a total detailed woman. So of course, I then am the planner or the doer and God is pushed out of the situations many times. I am always pushing myself out of the way and stretching my arms up to the heavens and asking God to forgive me for getting in the way and then quickly stepping aside in order that God can control the situation.

God is in situations even if I am trying to order it because He is sovereign. But I do think that sometimes I get in the way and it really does slow down the process for the Lord to work. God is sovereign. Absolutely nothing happens without God knowing. So, when I make the mistakes and are not a good example of Christ or I disobeyed Him He can use the situation to accomplish what He wants with out me. But, we are to be used of God. We are called to be Ambassadors for Christ. So if I am constantly getting in the way I am not pushing forward for Christ I am in the way.

I John 1:9 comes to mind, “If we confess our sins He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” The slate is clean and we can go on. Be careful that we do not sit in the mistakes and disobedience so much that we are no earthly good for the Lord to use.

When I sit and think of all of my mistakes then I am concentrating on the wrong and myself. I am not listening to the Lord and His leading in my life in order that I may be used for Him in a certain situation.

Sometimes, as I have experienced there is nothing we can do in situations and then too we must stretch out our hands and say Lord I am here if you want to use me please do, but I can’t see how anything in this situation is useable. We then are empty of what we are and God is now in control

So let us not concentrate on the mistakes that we have made or wrong doings or disobedience. Let us concentrate on asking for forgiveness and leave it at the cross and continue to be used even though we don’t think we can be used. Always remember that God is Sovereign. He doesn’t want our perfections He wants our availability even in our imperfections. He wants us.


CHECK IT OUT


Reading the biography Oswald Chambers: Abandoned to God – The Life Story of the Author of My Utmost for His Highest by David McCasland affected me deeply. I would like to share some of it with you.

Before reading this book, the only thing I knew about Oswald Chambers was that he was the author of the famous and well-loved devotional My Utmost for His Highest. I enjoy reading biographies of great Christians since their lives can be encouragements for us Christians living today. This book took me into the lives of Oswald Chambers, his parents and siblings, his wife, his child, and his many friends living for Christ in another time and place. He and his wife “Biddy” (Gertrude) were godly real life examples of Christians who lived and died within the past century. Oswald died in 1917 in World War I at the age of 43. His wife Biddy died in 1966.

He lived a life full of the Holy Spirit, which was the source of his joyful service. He refused to worry. He lived a “restlessly restful” life, as he liked to say. He did not value mere money and personal influence. Christ was his life, as the Apostle Paul said of himself.

Oswald was born in 1874 in England to a loving Christian family in which his father was a pastor and later, an evangelist, and his mother always cheerfully trusted God to work out whatever difficulties came to them. Oswald spent most of his happy boyhood in Scotland, but the family moved back to England later. Oswald gave his heart to Jesus Christ at age sixteen and grew in faith and service to his Lord. His schooling and career path was unclear for a number of years, as he was initially interested in serving God through art. He had a gift of art and music. His father favored more practical pursuits for Oswald, but Oswald did have two years of art schooling. He was also an astute learner of literature, philosophy, and history. Although he was offered a scholarship to continue his study of art, he decided not to accept it, as he observed moral problems with the study of art. Through various people, he felt God was leading him into the ministry of teaching God’s Word. Over time, he taught at three theological or Bible training schools, as well as teaching through Bible training correspondence courses. Part of his gift of teaching was his own “insatiable hunger for knowledge”.

Oswald had a spiritual “crisis of surrender” for four years from the ages of 23 to 27 (years 1897 – 1901). According to what I understand from this book, the crisis was due to the fact that he had not fully given himself to the Lord and had been relying on man’s high esteem of him and his obvious gifts in teaching and preaching God’s Word. Though on the outside, he seemed to be his usual likeable and outgoing self, inside he knew his sin and he struggled with it greatly. It seemed to me that he was trying to get closer to God, but was relying on his own efforts to do so. The praise of men kept him from God. Finally, he gave up his fear of what people would think of him and humbly repented and asked God to live in him. Clinging to the verse Luke 11:13 (“If ye being evil know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask Him.”), he asked the Holy Spirit to live in his life.

This spiritual breakthrough in 1901 changed his life forever. Though many aspects of his life appeared the same on the outside, one difference that some noticed was that before, on occasion, he could be caustic and bitter. He didn’t always accept criticism without defending himself. After this spiritual crisis, he was able to hear criticism without defending himself. Also, afterward, he exhibited tact, compassion, and love to a much greater degree. This was the time at which he put himself fully in God’s hands and trusted Him for his future in however God wanted to use him. One of his mottos was to “Trust God and do the next thing”. He felt that the one great crime for a disciple of Christ was worry. “Whenever we begin to calculate without God, we commit sin”. Instead of worry, his practice was to bathe the entire situation in prayer and then wait to see what God would do.

He was blessed with a pleasant personality and he loved people. People were drawn to him. He wrote, “Ever since I learned not to teach any consciously as an aim, men seem to come in many ways to me.” He was a man with “an energetic, inspiring personality”. He prayed every morning for others and prayed for an anointing from God. This gave him “such a skillful touch with souls”. The author wrote, “He was such a gloriously unconventional man.”

Besides teaching at the theological training school and the other Bible training colleges, he worked under the auspices of the Pentecostal League of Prayer. In exercising his duties and calling, he would travel to various parts of the world (England, Scotland, Japan, and America) and preach and teach God’s Word. Oswald led many people to Christ.

On May 25, 1910, he married Gertrude (“Biddy”) Hobbs, whom he had met at his brother Arthur’s church five years previously and then got reacquainted with her 2-1/2 years later when her mother asked him to look after her on the ship they both were taking to America. At this time, he wrote, “Life was always interesting in the providence of God.” In marriage, Oswald and Biddy were united in service to the Lord and in love for each other. They trusted God to lead them and to provide for them. A blessing to so many students, they opened their hearts and home to everyone in hospitality. They gave to anyone who asked for help. On May 24, 1913, their daughter Kathleen was born. What a blessing she was to them and all the students at the Bible college!

When World War I began on August 5, 1914, several Bible school students left for the war. Oswald prayed and struggled with how to handle responsibilities to his family, his country, and to the college. After this time of prayer, Oswald decided to join the war effort as a chaplain in the Y.M.C.A., which supported the British army. Since Egypt wasn’t in the combat zone, the Y.M.C.A. gave permission for his family to come to Egypt too.

As a Y.M.C.A. chaplain, Oswald came to serve the soldiers and strove to bring men to Christ. Everyone there realized that half of the men would be killed when they shipped out to battle. The men were ripe for hearing God’s truth. So, Oswald first started a nightly prayer meeting, which grew from just a couple men the first night. Then he added a midweek service, a Sunday service, and 45-minute nightly talks or lectures on Biblical topics that related to the issues that were on men’s minds. “Soldiers whom no one could accuse of being religious turned out night after night to study the Bible”.

Oswald and Biddy worked tirelessly for God among the soldiers for two years. Oswald became ill with appendicitis in October, 1917, developed a ruptured appendix, had surgery, and developed blood clots in the lung and died at age 43. It was a huge loss to all. In our day of modern medicine and in our practical mindset, it seems to be such a tragic waste. But, this too was in God’s hands and was used for His glory. His sermons and lectures were transcribed by Biddy into written format, and books were published, For three years, Biddy labored on the daily devotional that she titled one of Oswald’s often-used phrases My Utmost for His Highest.

Now that the background of Oswald Chambers’ life has been presented, the rest of the report will contain some more of Oswald’s statements and two of Biddy’s statements. Their lives as Christians have inspired and encouraged me to try, with God’s help, to live more as they did.

Their lives had no contradiction between what they believed and how they lived.

When Oswald and Biddy were faced with the unknown future, they would pray and wonder what God was going to do.

Oswald had a deep, settled peace in his soul. He felt the purpose of prayer was to get in step with God. He would ask Him and then wait.

From a letter to Florence, one of his sisters (1907):
“I feel unspeakably at home among men now [that] I know God.”

“One of the blessed things about this life is that a man carries his

kingdom on the inside, and that makes the outside lovely.”


From a letter to Biddy after their engagement, Oswald wrote:

Be patient and so utterly confident in God that you never question His

ways or your waiting time.

I am so amazed that God has altered me that I can never despair of

anybody.

Criticism of others kills spirituality every time.

To a friend, often he would write: “Be absolutely His!”

The author wrote, “Chambers had a rare capacity to trust matters to God in prayer and wait for Him to move.”

When Oswald got to Egypt in October, 1915, in his diary he wrote, “I am watching with interest the new things God will do and engineer.”

From his diary in 1916, “in any dilemma produced by providential circumstances, the temptation is to yield to ordinary common sense rather than wait for God to fulfill His purpose. God’s order comes to us through the haphazard.”

Chambers emphasized “discovering God’s will through what he called ‘the haphazard circumstances of life’”.

Oswald said, “The one right thing is to be a believer in Jesus Christ”. “To me (Biddy), he is always that preeminently.”

Biddy, upon leaving Egypt 19 months after Oswald’s death, wrote, “We thanked Him, for the abiding fellowship with the one who had lived before us the Great Life of believing in Jesus Christ”.

From Oswald Chambers’ book, Shade of His Hand, here is a quotation: “There will come one day a personal and direct touch from God when every tear and perplexity, every oppression and distress, every suffering and pain, and wrong and injustice will have a complete and ample and overwhelming explanation.”

I hope that these excerpts from the book have given you a better understanding of what kind of Christian man Oswald Chambers was. I thank the Lord for him and his wife Biddy and all they did for their fellow man on behalf of Jesus Christ. May they encourage us all to live for Him and serve Him in whatever we do for the glory of God.

HELPFUL HINTS FOR HOME

What's It Like To Be A Pastor's Kid?


Once in awhile as we have been raising our three sons, I have asked them questions like “What’s it like to be a pastor’s kid? Do you like it?” They have had no complaints, really, and most of the time they have said that they don’t know what it’s like to not be a pastor’s kid!

Are there special precautions we should take in raising pastor’s kids? Should we do anything different than other Christian families?

The common complaint of some pastor’s kids is that they were in the church every time the doors were open. To be honest, yes, my family is at church most every time there is something happening. But I honestly feel it wouldn’t be much different if we weren’t a pastor’s family. In just living a life to honor God, my family would be a vital part of a church family. Where we can take precaution is, in stating why we are going to church tonight. It’s not because we are the pastor’s family. I can think of only a very few occasions where I have told my kids that we need to be there because we are the pastor’s family.

We need to be conscientious of how the attitudes about ‘church’ are formed in the minds of our children. If Dad is at council meeting or visiting, I would often say ‘Dad is working tonight’ instead of ‘Dad is at church tonight’. I didn’t want my kids to see ‘church’ as something that takes their father away from home. Be cautious of telling your children they must behave or dress a certain way because people at church expect them to. Shelter your children from the small or big conflicts that occur in church families. In the times in our ministry where we have had conflicts, our kids have been absolutely clueless that anything is going on.

The part about this that pricks our conscience is that our kids are very likely to have the same attitude about church that we do! Do we talk critically about people and events after church? Do we wake them up Sunday mornings with a joyful attitude, saying ‘This is the day! We get to go to Sunday School today!”

Let your church family become part of your family. At one point when we were contemplating a move that would take us away from our families, a seasoned pastor’s wife told me that God had always provided aunts, uncles, grandparents and cousins in their church families. I have found that to be true. Encourage your children to visit after church. Have people into your home. ‘Let people in’ to your daily lives. Let them see that you aren’t perfect or on a pedestal.

Share the blessings of ministry with your children. In ministry, we get a window into people’s hearts and lives that other people don’t get to see. With respect to confidentiality, share those answers to prayer, the changed attitudes and lives, the miraculous provisions and the special conversations with your children. It may plant seeds in their hearts for where God may lead them in the future.

Our oldest left for AFLBS this fall, and we can tell he misses his church family. He asks about it often, and he chose a church in the Minneapolis area ‘because it reminds me of our church’. He didn’t have the choice whether to grow up in a pastor’s family, but hopefully he will see it as a gift from God.

IDEAS THAT WORK

NEW BEGINNINGS


That’s what we think about this time of year. What are your goals physically, spiritually, mentally, emotionally? Consider sitting down with a pen and paper. Ask the Lord what is on His mind for you.

I recently was working out at the local health club and noticed a posting from one of the members. She is a woman in her sixties. In addition to her workouts at the health club, her physical goals also included a walk or run in a competition one time each month. She either met or exceeded her goals each month.
That was an inspiration to me!

I had heard it said, “If you do not have goals, you shoot at nothing.” You have more of a tendency of moving towards your goals if you write them down. Just ideas but will you…

Physically – Join a health club? Find a walking partner or walk on your own? Sign up for a water aerobics class?

Spiritually – Set aside time with the Lord each day – not just quality time but quantity too? Read directly from the Bible? Use a new devotional? Attend a new Bible study? Learn how you can serve Him in your local church, area, or in the world? Increase your prayer life?

Mentally – Challenge yourself to learn new things? Memorize scripture?

Emotionally – Take time with others to encourage them? Accept love from others? Trust in the Lord?

Bottom Line – Seek total healing in all areas of your life? Be realistic. The Lord will give you strength to accomplish what His goals are for you.

The Lord so desires for us to have an abundant life - all unseen things that add up to total health.



John 10:9-11 …“I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly…”

HERE'S WHAT'S COOKING

Morning Glory Muffins



Ingredients
1 1/2 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 cup whole wheat flour
1 1/4 cups white sugar
1 tablespoon ground cinnamon
2 teaspoons baking powder
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1/2 teaspoon salt
2 cups grated carrots
1 apple - peeled, cored, and chopped
1 cup raisins
1 egg
2 egg whites
1/2 cup apple butter
1/4 cup vegetable oil
1 tablespoon vanilla extract
2 tablespoons chopped walnuts
2 tablespoons toasted wheat germ

Directions
Preheat oven to 375 degrees F (190 degrees C). Lightly oil 18 muffin cups, or coat with nonstick cooking spray.


In a medium bowl, whisk together eggs, egg whites, apple butter, oil and vanilla.


In a large bowl, stir together flours, sugar, cinnamon, baking powder, baking soda and salt. Stir in carrots, apples and raisins. Stir in apple butter mixture until just moistened. Spoon the batter into the prepared muffin cups, filling them about 3/4 full.


In a small bowl, combine walnuts and wheat germ; sprinkle over the muffin tops.


Bake at 375 degrees F (190 degrees C) for 15 to 20 minutes, or until the tops are golden and spring back when lightly pressed.




Raspberry-Glazed Rosemary Chicken


Ingredients
1 tablespoon crushed rosemary
1 teaspoon rubbed sage
1/2 teaspoon dried oregano
8 skinless, boneless chicken breast halves
1/4 cup fat-free chicken broth
1 cup raspberry preserves
1/2 teaspoon honey mustard
1 teaspoon chopped fresh rosemary leaves

Directions
Preheat oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C).


In a small bowl, stir together crushed rosemary, sage, and oregano.


Rub one side of each chicken breast with herb mixture. Place chicken herb-side up in a baking dish, and pour broth over the chicken.


Bake in preheated oven for 20 minutes.


Place raspberry preserves in a microwave-safe bowl, and heat for 20 to 30 seconds to soften. Stir in honey mustard and rosemary.


Spread about 1 tablespoon of preserve mixture over each breast. Bake 10 minutes more.

TOGETHER THROUGH PRAYER


Lord, we’re here again and we continue to really mess up. You already know all about our mistakes, Lord, but you know and we know that communication…two-way communicating…is essential. Oh God, I am so sorry – in your grace extend your forgiveness to me once again. Cleanse me and make me clean, O Lord my God. Let the blood of Jesus wash me clean.


God says: You are my daughter; I forgive you because of the sacrifice made my Son on the Cross of Calvary. I invite you to continue on this journey, this faith walk. Move ahead with Me leading the way.


Lord we want to walk with you in faith, but admit that we sometimes wonder how You can love us – mistakes and all. Keep us aware Oh Lord, that it is through problems and failures, weakness and neediness that we learn to rely on you. Remind us that we are truly victorious by living a life deeply dependent on You.


Keep coming to me, my child, and learn from me, for I am gentle and you will find rest for your soul.


We love you Lord, hallelujah because Jesus is interceding for us. Amen.

November 15, 2011

FOCUS





There isn’t a one of us who doesn’t desire to become an Excellent Wife. For some it appears to come so easily. They seem to be the perfect example of the Excellent Wife. Maybe their personality type displays these excellent qualities easily with what seems to be no effort on their part. Then again, age may be the key and over time they have been tempered and they have indeed learned how to become an Excellent Wife. Truly it is a process of becoming. We do seek to “become” but we will never fully arrive at the “perfect” until we’re HOME!! You’re in safe company here (we haven’t arrived yet!) as we journey together in our understanding of what an Excellent Wife is. During the 2011 year we will discuss the Foundational Truths of the Excellent Wife and also the Faithful Commitments of the Excellent Wife. New topics concerning these areas will be posted six times a year (every two months). Please join us.

WORDS TO INSPIRE

The Wife's Respect
based on the book THE EXCELLECT WIFE by Martha Peace


Five Biblical principles that explain the wife's respect for her husband:

1. The wife Is to respect her husband.
The amplified Bible gives further insight into this verse from Ephesians 5:33. “...let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband – and that she notices him, regards him, honors him, prefers him, venerates and esteems him, and that she defers to him, praises him, and loves and admires him exceedingly.”


2. The wife is to respect his position.
As pastor's wives it may be fairly simple to show respect to our husbands when they are in the pulpit, but what about in his life – at home? The Lord would have us be “thankful in all things...” I Thessalonians 5:18. That means showing respect during the difficult times, such as in his failures. Respect him when he is just in his everyday, ordinary life.


3. The wife is to behave in a respectful manner.
Be especially cautious of your words, tone of voice, and countenance as you speak to your husband. Ephesians 4:29 says “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up...” Perhaps the most helpful thing you can do is ask your husband to hold you accountable for showing respect to him. Your willingness to let your husband help you in this way, reflects your level of maturity.


4. The wife is to reprove her husband respectfully.
If your husband is doing something wrong, and a reproof is needed, so so gently and privately in order to restore him to a right relationship with God. Scripture says, “Love … does not take into account a wrong suffered, does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices in the truth...” I Corinthians 13:5,6.


5. The wife who is disrespectful may experience severe consequences.
The most likely consequence to disrespect would be a rebuke from your husband because he has the responsibility before God to reprove you - “...if someone is caught in sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently.” After all, disrespect toward your husband is a sin! Or he may respond by feeling hurt, pouting, becoming bitter, angry, abusive, or defensive. None of us wants that, do we. Additionally, disrespecting our husband tarnishes the reputation of the Lord Jesus Christ since our response to our husbands should be, “...as is fitting in the Lord” (Colossians 3:18.)


Treating your husband with respect is not based on his merit, he doesn't have to first earn it. Respect is something you choose to give him, it's a heart attitude. On page 115 of the book THE EXCELLENT WIFE there is a self-assessment that would be beneficial for all. The book is worth buying, if for no other reason than to gauge your own personal level of respect. If you find yourself guilty of the sin of disrespecting your husband, confess it to God, realizing He will be “faithful and just to forgive...” (I John 1:9) and ask your husband's forgiveness too.

NEEDS OF THE REAL WORLD

The Issue of Anger


Anger is a tough subject to write on because it can entail so many other emotions such as forgiveness, resentment and many more. With God’s help only can we understand this word.

We can suppress a lot of things in our lives and then explode. Sometimes the explosion is not even involving the person that you exploded to. But it seems like the cap comes off or we have had enough and the suppression of some anger issues comes out. Do not let the sun go down before the anger is settled.

Sometimes we feel people owe something to us and then the issue is who are we looking at. Then anger piles up like a lot of building blocks and as soon as it is moved it topples over and spills out.

A giving person gives and gives and if the root of that giving gets destroyed that giving turns to non giving and then it turns to resentment which in turn turns to anger

God wants us to give everything to Him, even our anger. When anger strikes our soul we should always take it to the Lord immediately. Obedience is a decision we make. Obedience is immediate. When anger is gripping our soul we have to obey and give it to the Lord immediately. Rebellion is opposite of obedience. So if rebellion takes over and we do not want to give the anger over to the Lord we then are not being obedient.

Colossians 3:8 says “But now ye also put off all these; anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, filthy communication out of your mouth.” Ephesians 4:31 “Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you.”

These above verses speak to me. I am a Christian woman and I am to obey God’s word. His words above are what I am to do. He is not asking me if I would like to put away my anger. No, He says “Put away” which a command. As a Christian woman I have already made the choice to follow God. So in that choice I have to obey Him in everything. Not a have to with a rebellious spirit but a have to because I want Him to be in charge of my life. So as I write this the tears roll down my face and say “yes, lord I will put away my anger.” I want Jesus to be the center of my life and that means in this also.” “You take charge of that issue.”

Then a peace comes over our hearts and our souls are healed. “I will listen Lord to your commands.” Having peace in our souls is such wonderful refreshment.

CHECK IT OUT


Those Prepared are Usually Spared


As pastor’s wives we are placed in the special position of getting asked lots of questions seeking advice on a variety of topics. One subject that I have been asked about, is how do we protect our children and church's children from child predators. Most likely the question has come up in your church family. This is a difficult subject with one reason being the fact that the majority of child predators are family and friends. It’s not enough to tell our young to be wary of strangers. Our children are gifts from God. We need not leave these precious treasures defenseless but rather should arm them with information and instruction in how to identify and respond if a sexual predator makes an advance.


Several years ago, two books came to my attention(which I now recommend) which deal with this delicate issue. They are, Samuel Learns to Yell and Tell and Sara Sue Learns To Yell and Tell, by the Christian author Debi Pearl. These books are directed toward the young child up through early adolescence. Yell & Tell are written in a musical rhyme much like the old Concordia children’s books . Young Samuel is discreetly challenged by his mother and Sara Sue instructs her little sister to consider how to respond if faced with situations concerning sexual advances. More information is in the back of the book directed at parents. We are admonished to be wise and proactive, but not paranoid. One point that struck me was that if we as parents and churches are open with the fact that our children are on the alert for unwanted advances, and that they will “yell and tell” that predators will be less likely to strike our church or family. This is not a subject to be quiet about.

Samuel Learns to Yell & Tell is written from a Christian perspective with biblical encouragement, while Sara Sue Learns to Yell & Tell is directed towards the wider audience. I would encourage every family to own the set and to read them many times over. Giving a child this simple knowledge is arming them with wisdom to always yell and always tell. I was happy to find these books and put them in my library. They can be used as another tool given to parents as they seek to protect their children from those who would do them harm. The old adages “knowledge is power,” and forewarned is forearmed” holds true. It is only after you recognize the enemy that you can formulate an effective campaign against him. May we daily uphold our children in pray and seek His wisdom in how we are to guide and protect them . These books are available online on Amazon and www.nogreaterjoy.org